Each session focuses on one area and at the end it all comes together giving us the tools to face life’s challenges.
Week 1 : Calm state – being calm and having a regulated nervous system is the foundation of physical, emotional and mental health.
Week 2 : Awareness – The horses are aware, noticing and feeling what is happening in their environment and bodies. They live in the present moment. How can we be more like horses?
Week 3 : Boundaries – It is your boundaries that keep you safe. Your boundaries are your yes and your no. What feels ok for you and what is not ok for you in the moment. How you like to be touched and spoken to; your personal space. Horses clearly communicate their boundaries.
Week 4 : Feelings – Feelings are information for you. Your feelings help you understand yourself, your needs, your actions or the moment your feelings “want to express”. All feelings are welcome, fear, sadness, anger, joy. Horses have the same feelings as we do, they feel it, they express it, they let it go.
Week 5 : Relationship – healthy, enduring relationships require emotional and physical safety, trust, listening, give and take and clear boundaries.
Horses model healthy relationships with clear boundaries and authentic responses.
Week 6 : Thinking / Talking – How you think, what thoughts you say to yourself (about yourself, others, life) impacts how you feel, hold your body, behave and build relationships. Become aware of what thoughts you offer yourself, about others or about life. Are they helpful, kind, accepting or harmful, critical, unkind.
Horses respond to your thoughts because they can feel your intention through energy, posture and smell.
Week 7 : Facing Life’s Challenges – Life is sometimes good and sometimes difficult. How do we manage when life throws us challenges and stressful events?
We manage challenges by using awareness, our breathing, grounding, being clear with our boundaries, accepting and managing our feelings, have healthy supportive relationships and ask for help.
If we teach our children these skills they will have the opportunity to flourish in life, happy and content knowing they have control of their lives.